Whose turn is it?

Whose turn is it?

What ruins successful marriages, at least in the beginning? Those where there is love and mutual respect, mutual desires and understanding, willingness to compromise for the sake of a partner and sacrifice their interests. Routine and routine. Boring daily tasks, boredom and monotony. In any family, even the most successful and harmonious, sooner or later a strict set of responsibilities develops for everyone – she and she alone, for example, always irons the laundry, cooks soup, loads the dishwasher and monitors the availability of food in the refrigerator. He buys groceries on the way from the office (according to her list, of course), takes the dog for a walk, performs minor repairs in the house that require it... she always packs a suitcase before a trip, he makes sure that the family car is serviceable and ready "for flight", she waters indoor plants and makes sure in order for the dog to have food, he goes to get this food and pays all the family bills on time – for phones, apartment, parking, cable channels, her aerobics and her gym... An ordinary life, quite prosperous, well-equipped. Maybe they have kids, maybe they're planning it, or maybe they're just not ready yet. But there is harmony and order in the family. And what prompted them both to apply to the registry office is that it has not disappeared anywhere, maybe the feelings are not as acute as they were years ago, but they are there, and they are alive. What ruins a relationship? Monotony. The mundane.

After all, it's not even a matter of choice or moral qualities – that's just how a person works. Give him a dull and monotonous job, and with a high degree of probability, the person will hate it literally from the first day. Force him to eat the same food all the time, and very soon he will prefer to starve a little. Force them to watch the same channel with repeated movies, and the TV will soon be out of business. Family life, alas, is no exception to this rule.

And without understanding this simple but inexorable law of life, there is no way to find solutions for such situations. Whereas these solutions are quite simple – just switch places, not in everything and not for long, just for a short time. In some ways.

Get up early in the morning, go to the flower shop and cook her breakfast. Nothing complicated or refined – let it be sandwiches with coffee or an omelet with orange juice. To clean up and water her favorite violets (although the latter is very risky: it may turn out that they had to be watered only after 4 days and now the shooting is imminent).

Stop by the supermarket after aerobics and buy him a German wheat beer. Figure out the accounts yourself (it might even be interesting). To walk the dog for his arrival in the evening. Stop by the car wash while he's at the gym…

Small tricks of life, small elements of novelty that drive away boredom. And it is a great help in maintaining a healthy climate in family relationships. Nepalese users can benefit greatly from the melbet promo code no deposit is designed for the Nepalese market, offering a bonus in local currency. Upon entering this promo code and making a qualifying first deposit, a player from Nepal can receive a generous bonus sum of up to 10,000 NPR. This allows for extensive betting on a wide array of sporting events available on Melbet.